Even in the 21st century, the mentality of people regarding gender roles has barely evolved. As two daughters, my sister and I are enough for our family, yet society still clings to the outdated belief that having a son is essential. We’ve never felt the need for a brother, nor have our parents ever expressed any regret about not having a boy. We proudly handle every responsibility—whether it is household chores, running errands, or managing financial and technical tasks—just as efficiently as any boy could.

Yet, despite our confidence and abilities, society continues to cling to outdated beliefs. Still, there are people who view not having a son as a curse, as if it’s impossible to live a fulfilling life without a boy in the family. Every time my mother offers food to a beggar, an elderly person, or a so-called saint, the only blessing she receives is, “May you have a son soon.” It is really frustrating to witness this narrow-mindedness day after day.

Relatives and family friends are no different. When they visit, they often express pity for my parents, making comments like, “You must have had a boy. How will you live with just two daughters?” or “You never tried for another child? You might have gotten a son.” These remarks are not only hurtful but also absurd, considering the modern era we live in. On the occasion of Rakshabandhan, we happily tie rakhi to each other, yet people make fun of us, asking, “Whom will you tie rakhi to?” These comments reflect a deep-rooted mindset that refuses to change.

One incident that particularly stands out was when a young boy followed my sister and me, demanding more money. When I yelled at him to leave us alone, he cursed, “May your brother die!” Although we have no brother, the fact that even a child believed that only a male could be the ruler or protector of the household was shocking.

Thanks to our parents who never made us feel anything like this and always trusted us. They never compared us with someone's boy. They are always proud of us. 

So, this mentality—where boys are seen as superior and girls as lesser—is something that needs to be addressed. We are not defined by our gender; we are defined by our abilities, strength, and character. It's time society recognizes this and moves forward. That is all for now

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