Hi friends , let we start up with my new blog .here I would like to share about the most toxic habit which each and everyone have in us. So let we see it friends,..

Once upon a time Buddha was sitting with his disciples . One of his disciples asked him , lord how we can control our anger ? Buddha said , I tell you a story . By listening to this story you will learn to control your anger  , and the story goes like this , 

Once upon a time there lived a quarrelsome lady in a village , she use to get angry over a little things .In anger she use to say a lot of abusive words , and when her anger subsided  , she would feel sorry  , her whole family was upset because of her this habit . And there was always an atmosphere of quarrel in her family. One day a sage came to the door of that woman asking alms . The told her problem to the monk . She said , o wise one , o get angry very quickly  I could not control my anger .

 The monk took out a small bottle of medicine from his bag and gave it to her and said take this , this is a medicine of anger , whenever you gets angry , put four of medicine on your tongue and keep it in the mouth for 10 minutes . Do not open the mouth for 10 minutes , otherwise the medicine will not have any effect. Saying this monk and left from there.

The woman started using the medicine as per the instructions of the monk , In just seven days she lost her habit of getting angry ,  after seven days when the monk again came to her door ,the woman fell at his feets ,  And said , O wise one your medicine has done wonders to me . I don't get angry now because of taking your medicine and there is an atmosphere of peace in my family too.

Hearing her words , the monk smiled and said daughter there was no medicine in that Vail ,  infact it was filled only with water , you have not controlled your anger by this medicine , but you have controlled your anger  by keeping quiet. After telling this story Buddha said that anger can be only controlled by keeping quiet, because anger person speaks abusive words which sparks controversy , so the cure for anger is only silence . 

If we see in our life we will find that often there are moments in our life , when we get angry and lose our composure . And when someone gets angry his mind stops working and his mouth starts talking. In anger the person speaks such abusive words for for which he has to repent later. Angry person not only commits mental voilence  but can also commits physical voilence due to which sometimes he has to regret in his whole life later on. 

Mostly physical voilence happens in those moments of anger.but anger lasts only for a few moments , if we keep silence in those moments of anger then we will be saved from many fights and quarrels .

so whenever you get angry always keep calm. Take a few drops of medicine called silence in your mouth and close your mouth for sometime. And you will be saved from many troubles to come .

      Thanks for Reading 🙂

                                ~ Rekha