A question which arises in all cases is TO STAY OR TO LEAVE. Many times we get confused whether we should stay in that situation or we should just leave it. But whatever might be the situation, it is never easy to leave our loved ones. Many times we often come across situation where we have to leave. Staying is tough but leaving is even tougher when it comes against your loved ones.

 SOMETIMES IT IS BETTER TO LEAVE INSTEAD OF STAYING, SOMETIMES IT IS BETTER TO HEAL OURSELVES THEN LEAVING A SCAR ON OTHERS, SOMETIMES IT IS BETTER TO FORGET OR MAKE THEM AS A MEMORY INSTEAD OF REGRETTING.......

There are many cases where we see people trying to stay in situations which make their conditions even more vulnerable than ever before. Many times females face domestic violence and still they choose to stay with that person. They don’t even try to stand against that situation. They think it as their destination and agree to the fact that they have to silently accept their situation because of their families or because of their child. 

Many times the situation is so worst that they even have to lose their lives. Dowry is also the main cause for domestic violence. I don’t even understand the concept of dowry, why someone does asks for something in marriage. Are you getting married or buying something? Also the funny fact for me is the family of girl gives money for their girl to stay in another house just as a rent for lifetime where she has to perform all her duties. Is it a joke going around. You are paying for your daughter to work in someone else house as a labourer. She isn’t even valued there. Not even she is being molested; she is being used as a free worker who has to work whatever her condition might be, also violence is being performed on her. Still she chooses to stay there, thinking something magical will happen and the mindset of that family would change. No, it is absolutely a wrong thinking, nothing would change until and unless you change. Why would something which has been going since decades change just by thinking, you have to take actions. 

But also actions are not easy to perform when you think of everyone instead of yourself. Even family of the girl is responsible for their situations, firstly the women doesn’t even tell them about this and if they come to know about them they won’t do anything and would tell her to accept this and think of them as they also have performed same deed with the females of their house. In such situation as female has to stand strong and instead of staying they need to leave. They have to stand strong when very first time she was being tortured. Because if you don’t stop at first step you won’t be able to stop that person when the time has gone. Also when the child sees these type of activities he either would stay away from that or would think it has been going for ages, when no one else could stop it what will i do. In today’s world even the female is enemy of other female. You should stop thinking of others when it comes to your very own self respect. Choose leaving instead of staying when the relation is filled with toxicity

Thank you