The most creative, imaginative and the feeling which gives us butterflies is when we are ONE SIDED LOVERS. Being someone’s secret one sided lover is which gives you hope as well as a feeling of loneliness at the same time. When you are a secret admirer you create a lot of imaginative stories with that person regardless of knowing the reality and when you are too aware of the fact that, that person doesn’t even know about it. But it is also very hurting when you try your level best just to pretend that you don’t feel anything about that person. Also the toughest decision is when you need to choose between keeping that person as your friend or your lover. Crushing on a friend isn’t something we can control.

But we often try to make some hard decisions in our life that can ruin each relation which exist with that person. If our crush is a friend it is still easy to meet them unless it might be difficult in having conversation. But if our crush is someone we don’t even know, it is hard to see that person but such crushes are easy to forget as we don’t have enough memories with them. But the crushes who are also our friends, it is hard to forget them because of the memories we create. 

But we can also deny the fact that memories are just a part of our lives. Whether we create memories or not it is hard to forget someone for whom we had feelings for or we might have right now. Being a secret admirer is still fine until they commit themselves with someone else, but it is hard to see that person with someone else. And also what might be devastating is when we face rejection. 

Rejection is something no one wants to face. Sometimes these rejections can be harmful. If you loved that person you won’t ever try to force that person to love you or feel the same way you feel for them. Because love doesn’t have any kind of expectations because the pure things need to be free without any expectations. 

We need to know how we can just use best of our time to create memories with that person no matter how. Also we need to have the courage to confess our feelings because if we won’t tell them how they will come to know, not everyone has the talent to understand our feelings. We are the ones who need to know what if they rejected; no need to worry there is someone who is made for you too. We just need to believe in our fate, because nothing bad can ever happen to the heart who knows how to love. It is just us who sometimes feel that our heart is broken but no one except us has the power to heal ourselves. We need to accept the fate as it is, instead of cursing or thinking of revenge how can someone reject you we need to tell us might be there something better to come up, therefore, right now this thing didn’t happened. Just believe in what you deserve and don’t let anyone else decide that.

Thank You