Love at first sight…I just looked at her/him…our eyes locked…it was a magical moment! Current ran throughout their bodies, someone was playing silent lovely music or maybe guitar…their actions were indicating the same..maybe…THIS IS LOVE♥️..!! We had so many stories, movies, tv commercials, short films showing this #love at first sight in their drama. But by watching those, have you ever feel or had a question like..Is it really possible or when this will happen with me??!!

We can see or hear so many examples of couples who claims that they have fallen in love at first sight. It might even have happened with you. Like by seeing a stranger, you feel irresistible drawn towards that person, and the very first comment of yours on that action was like …yes, I love her or him! So clearly, “love at first sight” isn't uncommon term. But how can you distinguish between if its a love or just an attraction towards that person??

Well, its not a magic but there is a science behind the feeling of love at first sight. Some scientists claimed that there is a chemical reaction takes place that makes you feel love. Our brain release dopamine and serotonin. Due to these, person can feel few effects like dilated pupils, feeling high and term “butterflies in the stomach”. This lead us to feel an instant pull towards that person. When this happens, one feels an attachment, maybe a connection towards that person and we describe this as love at first sight. But there has been much debate regarding whether love at first sight is a myth or is real. In my opinion, actually its depend on your definition of love. Love is not desire, its not an attraction or pleasure. Love is a special great gift one can have. Love is a set of actions and emotions. It may include commitment, passion, care, protectiveness, affection, intimacy and trust. It is associated with wide range of positive emotions. 

Now, the question is how would you know its a love or just an attraction!! There is a thick line between loving someone and liking someone. Physical attraction is common but a real mental connection is rare. If you are attracted towards someone, you won't be able to stop thinking about that person, but in a obsessive way. And that can make you behave or act like crazy. Attraction has a definite hidden motive unlike love. Once that motive is fulfilled, you suddenly lose interest in that person. But, things like this do not happen when you are in love. Love is unconditional and there isn't any motive or personal need. But, how would you know if it's a love or an attraction at just first sight?! Just take your time to process. Don't conclude anything directly. Most importantly, its a concept where everyone can have different perceptions. So, its you who can actually say..Yes, its a LOVE at first sight!!!!!