Published Sep 22, 2022
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Habbits That Ruin Your First Impression Immediately Part-1

Published Sep 22, 2022
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  • A week handshake 

Do you know a week handshake can also ruin your first impression. A bad hand shake will completely be the killer of your first impression. And this kind of people that is a week hand shake people are mostly  viewed by other people as a shy type and anxious one . Even they are judged as uninterested people to others. And another one thing to say that is dont ever hold others hands for too long. Just be cool and make your holding hands just for 2secs it's okay. Even this habit shows up your fear from being normal. Just imagine many of you have done this , so what I want to convey is that to show up your confidence just less your this kind of holdings.

  • Keeping your hands in the wrong position

            If you're sitting in front of a group of people,whether it be a business meeting or at some conference , you've got to be mindful of where you keep your hands . You can put them on your lap, but never keep them in your pockets, because this gives the impression that you're bidding something. If you place your hands on the table, don't squeeze them too tightly, or leave them flat with your plams down . This makes people feel like you want to control them. 

  • Avoiding eye contact 

                     Eye contact has unbelievably powerful influence on how we view someone. It is said that people  who maintain eye contact during a conversation ,are often seen more confident ,attentive ,intelligent and trust worthy. People who avoid eye contact on the other hand ,are viewed as less sincere ,more anxious ,and even unattractive. It does not mean you have to stare people down like a creep, just don't be afraid to lock eyes with another person from time to time,instead of constantly looking around.especially when you meet them for the first time.

  • Playing with your hair 

                   If you playing with your hair while talking to someone, you could be sending them the wrong message . First of all they might think that you're flirting with them. But more importantly a person who toys with their hair during a conversation looks unConfident ,anxious,and uncomfortable . And when Playing with your hair becomes excessively repetitive, it can even be a sign of OCD. If you tend to do this when you're nervous ,try to kick this habit. It will do you and your hair a lot of good. 

  • Picking the wrong conversation topics. 

                   In order to avoid the dreaded ,awkward silence ,a lot of people are ready to talk about anything with someone they have just met. But you never know what subjects make someone feel uncomfortable . So it's better to play it safe, and avoid the general taboo topics out there. They include health problems, money , religion , politics, or personal problems and complaints . Always not to focus the conversation only on yourself ,and your issues . It's always a good idea to be attentive to your conversation partner. A good listener , is always highly appreciated . 

        Thanks for Reading 🙂

                                   ~ Rekha

Habits ruins first impression
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nobin.karthik 9/22/22, 5:08 PM
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Nice one
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nii99_99 9/23/22, 1:38 AM
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Nice and very important!
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the_little_treasure 9/25/22, 5:32 AM
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Some other reasons could be - Interfering in between, not listening to the other person carefully , answering the questions inappropriately . Nicely written ,
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