HELLO DEARS
Today i wouls like to share my friend life experience
she is my childhood friend we started our journey at the first day of playschool. we travel togather upto collage.
Her native is one of the rural villages, School and home have 4km distance, don't have bus facility, auto, nothing. The days are going also we completed 5th standard, now only she started to face the first struggle. Her parents won't allow for higher secondary.
WHAT ARE STRUGGLE SHE FACE
1.Education
Okay,… how she face the problem, what are problem………….,Let share with you guys she complete her primary school, after her parents wont to allow for higher study, because they don't know about the women education. If a girl means you should only know cooking, and other work, the people think is a girl baby thay don't want education, it is rite??????? If they know the importance of education, but they wont to allow, because of society.
Finally she joined her school high secondary in other language……..with the help of her uncle.
She studied english medium up to 5th standard, but she joined the school Tamil medium……sad….. so i to join same school.
Her father doesn't have responsibility of her education… But she got a help from her uncle onwards.
We started the studies and finally we complete 10th standard.
One good news FRIENDS She got school 7th rank…
One sad news ……. Her parent again started ramayanam(Advice). Her father strictly sad thay wont allow for study, and she also facing one more problem that is also one reason for her father, any one guys what…?
Love ……. One of your class boy, falling love with her…
it is a on side love…….. she doesn't love him, But the boy won't to leave her, he started trying to imprese her, he stared to follow her.
Her father notice this, And strated advicing, make more rules…..etc….
AGAIN HER UNCLE COME BACK
Between five years her don't have contact with her uncle. On the time her uncle support, he eared the news, she got good mark, her uncle convince her father and finally they allow for study.But they plan for got admission on private area top school, But her father not ready to pay school fees, so her uncle pays the fees. And have more expectation.
But she got below 900 mark, her uncle disappointed, My friend father started blaming her uncle, after few days uncle did' speak. All of them maintain silent, she was so depressed, and don't know wat to do. Then me and my father plan for join collage, i asked my father to ask my fried father, He asked finally her father sad ok. After 2 years we meet again we Join same collage same department. We started enjoying the women collage life………….. The three years are gold days. Again sadness comes.
IN these 3 years she faces onside many family problems, compulsion of marriage, etc., her father tortuer her mother more, They don't know how to solve the problem, her mother don't have any support, my friends granny and grandpa are passed when she was born. This situation says the importance of mothers love and family support.
DRESSING AND SOCIETY
The society is badder in the village they are following the rules blindly.They won't allow to move outer. They have the rule for all those things, what thay give you should accept, is it right???????. She don'd have chance to wear new dress, what they friend wears, But thay have enough earning. But they con't change the life style. The society never try to give the education to younger generation, If anybody give a education to children, the surrounding socity not accept it.Society way of seeing is bad, thought is not good, they are spoiling her name,etc…..
JOB
IS THE MAIN THING
THIS Only change the society how thay are seeing you.
But we did't get job……..
just we studied that it we don't learn the new thing are not getting much practicals in the subject, and they don't have knowledge about internet, social media, in the year of 2018, many of them don't get knowledge.
Friend u people just comment me friend, is there any way to gain knowledge without internet. what are the strugle comes never giveup, just move on, the bad day in gone but we tink that past never do it..
THE MAIN STRUGGLE COMES HEAR AFTER LIFE DAYS, SHE FACED MORE, Disappointment, We never saw to parent bad side and betrayal.
if you guys want, comment me i will post it part 2……….
THANKING YOU FOR MY SUPPORTERS………
