To all my aspirant readers,first of all i like to tell that this is my first blog i have written here,i am person who express their thoughts in written rather than spoken of. so i tried to write a blog about becoming selfishly selfless person in every way in their lives

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Do a person can be selfless without having a selfish return for their doing but they can be selfish without selfless thoughts right,isn't?

We all know that if we become too selfish,we always tend to expect everythings happens in our lives in our way with or without any struggle.

But,Being too selfless makes oneself vulnerable in front of others and the concept of “"SELF LOVE" or" LOVING YOURSELF" could be destroyed(he/she becomes a clay(victum) in the hands of others who can mold them easily in their way).thus on one hand, if you too care about yourself than others ,you would feel like the world is against you,whereas on the other hand,if you care about others by neglecting your needs,you would be taken advantage of the situation

So,is it better to be selfless (where we look out for other persons needs and expectation than himself) than selfish(where a person treat himself first than others)? or vice versa,a million dollar question right?

Thus the concept of "SELFISHLY SELFLESS" makes an appearance. A tamil proverb goes by “ thanaku minjiyathutha thanamum tharmamum "which means  Charity and Justice come after one's needs are fulfilled. This proverb may look like a selfish thought but if you think in a perspective where one's need is fulfilled, we would be free to help others without expecting anything from them.

Thus ,by living selfishly selfless one would able to balance their selfish judgements and their selfless to help others.though it is not easy to become that person,it is not an impossible one.It's like walking in a rope where we need to balance both right and left foot to reach the end point. This makes you find your balance between being selfish to grow onself and also selfless enough to those around you to grow

We are the only ones in the world who would be able to find true value of ourself,so don't let the world dictate/judge you,just do what you do best

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