Dear society,
You have power to lockup those two beings who had plan to go back to the college and school she was studying pre Covid19 and he who still trying to figure out what and how and what is happening with him and his life , should he be now start working hard and work whatever , wherever to take care not really but to please people to look responsible i mean just look not BE responsible because if he was he would have paused the idea of this whole game of marriage which has no meaning since its very fragile idea,
Our idea of marriages are just those events where each family gets to show off their gold and some families gets opportunities to satisfy their ego by not inviting some relatives who are no more in good books with us and for some its time to get rid off their girls for good.
Marriages are not really union of two opinionated individuals who decided to come together to spend rest of their life around each other and still own their view points.
Arrange marriages are sort of systems in culture which limit individually able to choose and decide for own.
How about those marriages which are decided from the profile at shaadi.com , a marriages decided from those details provided by well corrupted and well trained at marketing adults who are taking most care in choosing best way to present themselves in those 10 line profile , 80% of information there is about how each are financial secure and rest is about religion and cast they belong to, the funniest out this is the phone numbers usually given there is of girl's uncle or father's so when that guy who got impressed by girl's profile and finds she can get good income and she will be of great partner in sharing EMIs for those flats that they are going to invest on and car that they will buy, so its her uncle or father will say hello to this guy probable the first call is to confirm the details mentioned.
How these kind of marriages get quality of human race decline over the period of time, the insecurities , doubts and not readiness will pass on to future generation who do not take part in democracy and community, many just are too happy at passenger seat for life and too comfortable.
see you soon with something elseβ¦.