Move on!!!

I think most of us have heard this for at least once till now.

It is the easiest thing to say to a heartbroken person but the hardest to be done.Whenever we lose our courage and we are no more steady enough to build our dreams again we try to find shelter in the hearts of our beloved ones.

But……..we don't  get that shelter what we actually want.We just get to hear some basic stuffs like “move on”,"focus on yourself “……etc. along with some tags in motivational quotes and videos.But this is not what we want at that moment when all our hopes have been shattered.We want someone to listen to our broken hearts with some patience.But the only consolation that is kept for us is"move on"……….After listening to all this at some point we also make our mind that now it's time to move on.But what do we do with our heart that doesn't want to move on .It tries to hold on to that same person but our mind knows that it's no more possible and that is the moment when the real struggle starts between heart and mind.

Heart says,"can I build this one more time……just for the last time can I just forget everything around me and take the first step to join all those broken pieces with more care and love……." And mind says,"is this the only time that you are  trying to rebuild it……haven't you done this previously also…….but what result did you get in the end …….only your shattered feelings…don't you have your own self worth….."

We can't understand  that should we listen to our heart or to our mind and what is more important to us ……our self esteem or that one person who took away our hopes from us or that relationship which made us feel so hopeless.Is there any point to care about a relation in which love and compromise was just one sided ………..Thousands of thoughts clutter our mind but we can't reach to any conclusion. We just get messed up with mind and heart….neither can we move on nor do we want to stay in that emotionally troublesome situation. We just wait for time to heal us.

And that is what happens mostly. With time we get busier with our lives and those memories mixed with dark and bright hues stay in one corner of our heart and we just continue to heal from our past. 

#feelings of soul