What we actually want is not we want this is that want which our family friend and relative want Our wants are that want which we need when our heart says that you are absolutely right can do it and you have to get it so do whatever you want to do, never ever do which your relative tells you to do you can ask suggestion from your family but do what your heart and mind say to you because you are the creator of your own life so be patient and be calm so you can decide what you have to do and not to do take your time to decide that whether you to do that or not.

if it is related to studies, job or anything else also take suggestions from your senior who is already struggled in that field never ask any suggestion from anyone who doesn't have any knowledge of what you actually want. so it is better to take suggestions from seniors rather than from any person. 

your wants are your need, not anyone's needs so treat yourself as the first priority so that everyone will treat you as the foremost priority. 

give it a try and see that you can or u can't. if you can then definitely give it a try if you give a try then only you will succeed otherwise you have to take help from your family to earn or to gradually become the owner so that you can take the decision of your own 

so it better to listen to heart and mind rather than society because at a hard time of you the society is going to help you only your studies and your parents will be going to help you so at the beginning of your career only you need to understand that what you want and want other wants so basically my motive to write this blog to tell you that you are enough to yourself you don't need to prove anyone that you are right if you are right and your heart says that you are right than you are right never listen to the anyone because everyone wants you to let you down because they want to come up so you need to know that who is good for you and who is not. so at last 

so what which make you feel good.