It is not the bad thing that to love yourself above anyone either it's your boyfriend or girlfriend. the main problem is when we start prioritising ourselves over them. In every relationship, relationship can be between our own body and soul too. Time and value is the most important factor to deal upon. Today's relationship is all about sugar coated words and the moment we realise all was fake the time has gone we connected So much with that person that we had lost ourselves. and you all should know that the person who themselves come out from that hell is our superhero or super heroine. No such feminism here but girls pretty much more connected than the boys, if they are connected to someone they give their whole to them, and when left abandoned they just don't remain themselves they don't trust anyone and if later on some right person comes too then also they are not able to trust them also. one negative thing about girls that I also don't like in me is that talking to a boy for 10-15 days relationship, we plan our whole future with them.
The moment when a person finds his/her true soulmate you will not be thinking anything. Most over thinker person will also go in flow only. Till then just wait take a deep breath and your soul mate will be coming right in front of you smiling like an idiot while seeing you. I think this is the only thing that comes with destiny all the other things in this world is the result of our hardwork. Love is not about future it's about today being with someone who makes you happy, who makes you laugh and while you Both are together no stress can interrupt that. One secret I am going to share now we bloggers have more than enough knowledge but we deny to initiate that on ourselves we also fall in false love, we also get caught in sugar coated words, you want to know the reason because we are humans we crave for love, care, respect and the moment someone provides us this no matter for some couple of days. We start to like them prioritise them. So we just share this stuff here so that while reading this if one of hundreds will be saved from getting his/her heart broken our broken heart will be amended I guess.