Love, comes with a price. The unconditional tag given to love, is meant for books. We are usually told this, when our relationships don't work out. But do we ever think, how far fetched this whole idea of love is? How do some people manage to find love in the odds and some don't find it in the most likely? 

Understanding the Laws of Attraction: People always tend to follow their hearts when choosing a partner for life. We may like someone's smile, someone's face, someone's voice, personality, etc. But , do we realize, these are external aspects of a person, which may seem very appealing. We must pause and think of the emotional aspects. Whether or not a person is emotionally compatible or not. We should know that for getting to know a person we need to be sharing thoughts, interests, etc. to come to an understanding. Attraction is always superficial and withers out, what stays is the person on the inside. No one can be pretentious for life. Before taking the plunge, be sure of what are your ideas about relationship and what are your goals and expectations from it, makes it easier on both the parties to rationalize rather than compromise.

Stop Finding Fault in the stars : We often blame it on our stars or the other person or the society if relationships do not work out or if we cannot take it through our relationship goals. But my friend, it is not always in the stars. It is in the mind. We cannot fight the what is written in the stars for us, but we can definitely try to make things work here on earth with sound and rational thinking and reasoning. There is a touch of destiny in the matters of the heart, to make it work here in in our hands. We may have several reasons and arguments to this but at the end of it all, we must allow our heart sometimes to know for itself whether or not things can really work or not. 

Loyalty: Yes, Love is not for the faint hearted, it takes real nerve to continue being in love with the same person throughout your existence. Real life is not a movie. Relationships here are real. Truth is Loyalty is the core foundation of any relationship to survive the test of time. Two people may be together in a relationship and suddenly get attracted to someone else, even being in a long lasting stable relationship. It is the call for a person, at that point of time to fight that temptation and stick to his/her partner. It is he/she who fights it back, turns out to be the true hero in a relationship. Loyalty does boost self esteem of both partners and a willingness to hang on and nothing can replace it.

Avoid A Messy Break Up: Still if there is a need to move on, do so in a dignified manner. We sometimes fail to realize, that a person in a, relationship invests a lot of time, emotions and also finances. It is best to keep your point straight across the table and manage to come to an accord. It ain't easy to detach oneself from anything that has been a part of you for a significant period of time or may be if you have been quite involved in the relationship.  

Love is simple. It is just learning to share your life with someone, you want to be with. It is as simple as that. It demands loyalty, friendship and intention to keep it and strive for it when things get difficult. Love makes room for bringing out the best in you. Before giving up, you must try to make it work to be the best you are.

 Best Wishes for a fresh start!!