Recently I was talking to a friend and we ended up discussing about how you never understand how in the heat of the moment everything even the universe, feels like it is against you. But actually, it is doing you so many favour.

And we just sat there recounting all those times when our life felt like torture to us, when we couldn't think about something without it making us sad, even cry and what we gained out of it. We realised the only reason we have friends was because the universe put us through help so that we would find each other. Some of us are compassionate, and some are in pure rage, and that's how this universe knew we matched like cold water poured on a burning fire.

Change is angry, change is like a knife cutting through our body, change is like someone ripping your intestines out, but change is the only way you can figure out your metal and the core that you are made of. Even if the change was at first unwelcome, but you will find out soon that it was exactly what you needed to bring out best in you, to make you a better version of yourself.

There is always a reason behind something happens, even if it doesn't feel like the right thing. And because we live in a dimension where time is linear, just moving and waiting for none, we cannot understand it is important in the moment when we are the chosen ones to suffer. But it is always because we needed to change, we needed to grow and we needed to become more of who we are supposed to be. And it could be hard, and it can be too long, but no one ever say, life is a breeze. And may be we are not really a sum of all goods in our lives.

You just need to take a moment and look back on everything that has ever happened to you and wait till you realise that may be it is not about what went right, may be it was never about what was good, may be it never was about the sunshine. And maybe in the end, “we are all just creatures build up from everything that we went wrong in our lives.”

Just give it a thought and you'll see how much you have evolved.