Hello everyone! I am yet again here to deliver some thoughts or conclusion of experiences I had in my life.
After living 23 years of my life, I felt that one of the hardest things in life to do is to say goodbye to people you loved the most, closing the door of your heart forever for someone you want to hug tightly, someone with whom you promised to stay forever, someone you never want to let go at any cost, someone with whom you share your happiness, your sorrows, your guilt, your ambitions, every emotions, just everything!
Those people and memories created with them is like a beautiful chapter of your life. Of course it takes a lot of courage to close those beautiful chapters of your life completely (may be forever). No matter how much they hurt you, but there is always love for them somewhere. You know that you'll always have soft corner for them because there're so many good feelings and memories in your heart associated with them. The things about endings is that you don't know what to do with those memories after goodbyes. Some of them bring smile on your face or some leave you in pain.
When you cross the road and see the cafe you used to hang out, when you see last benches of your classroom - you just freeze. When you come across a food or a drink or a movie that was favourite of you all, it become now hard to consume or watch without thinking about them. All the flashes of those memories come in front of your eyes making you nostalgic for a moment.
There are so many pictures, videos and crazy inside jokes, when you see them or remind them, it makes you laugh at first followed by some sort of sadness. How can you erase someone completely from your life? What can you erase those memories forever? Maybe it',s never completely a goodbye!
Some people say that things need to end for new things to happen, don't let them hold you back but what if you don't want to end them? What if they were your happiest place?
But as time progresses, things changes, situation changes and so people changes. Changes are crucial part of our lives. It's more like evolving in true sense. You just need to accept the changes and move ahead in life to gain new experiences.