Reminder: Losing toxic people is a win-win situation. Don't regret it, Never ever.

I am somebody who does not get attached too easily. It takes me more than just a few dates to start opening up to someone and letting them in.

I have always struggled trusting people, I weigh the pros and cons a little too much before sharing a part of myself with them.

So, once I let someone in, I go through hell if it ever comes to letting them go. To say, it is extremely painful and heart wrenching would be an understatement.

I feel abandoned even when I am the one who let them go because as much as they were toxic for me, my heart would keep reminding myself of the momentary comfort and the feeling of being safe they would make me feel everytime they held me.

But as much as it hurts and feels like your heart has been ripped apart in pieces and you have failed in life and love, remember that nothing is worth sacrificing your happiness and respect not even they.

Losing toxic people makes you love yourself a little more so that nobody else dares to take advantage of your love for them. Being taken for granted is an ugly feeling and nobody, you included, deserves to ever feel that way.

Toxic people come wearing masks of happiness, two faces people, they first coax you into believing them, make you fall in love by making you feel at the top of the world but the high only gets high till a point, after that comes unanswered calls, seen messages, making you feel that it is your fault, under appreciating you, putting you down always and making you feel miserable all the time. They made you feel like you are nothing, you know nothing, although you exist for them but don't value your presence.

So, it is a gentle reminder from someone who is a few heartbreaks old and dealt with toxic people half of her life that losing toxic people is winning yourself. Don't feel bad about losing them because they don't deserve you but they deserve toxic people like themselves. 

And so, you should always choose yourself as the prize over anything and anybody else. Value your own worth. No one should be before yourself. 

So, just stay away from toxic people. Let them stay toxic. Have a nice day!