Ever been in a toxic relationship? Why can't you just get rid of those people? What has been affecting you so much, that you can't leave those people behind?
Hey everyone! Personally I've never been in a relationship. But got some friends who were in relationship for quiet sometime, but didn't go well as they thought when getting in to the relationship. Many of us enter to the dating world not even knowing that a lot of our beliefs about relationship are toxic to begin with.
What I've observed from some of my friends that they are afraid of leaving the persons who hurt them the most but cannot leave them because they think that they might destroy them, thus making themselves in a more uncomfortable and painful situations. I won't say everyone every boy is a toxic person, but there are some persons they just use and throw. They don't know how to respect the girls, god might know how they behave towards their mothers and sisters.
Why you've been so quiet? Why are you making a way for them to destroy you? Why can't you standup and raise your voice against them? Normally girls stay quiet in such situations making them even worse. This is where you girls have to change your opinion. Don't let anyone control ourselves. Raise your voice even if you feel this is going to be a challenging. Take risks in your life but, not by keeping toxic people in your life. Mental health too matters here. Recently there have been reported many cases in India where people die in result of being in toxic relationship. It doesn't matter whether you're married or unmarried, if you feel you're not comfortable with a particular person LEAVE THEM. It costs nothing. Absolutely nothing. You'll be alright after few days. There are people who faced anxiety, stress, depression because of such toxic relationship.
It's high time to raise your voice. Domestic violence on women are increasing day by day. There are women in remote areas who are beaten to death for not giving them dowry. Never blame yourself for them. You've been good to them, it's just that they don't deserve people like you.
Never give up whatever the situation must be. Raise your opinion, don't let you and your self respect to be down in front of anyone. Remember there are two persons in you life who wants you to be happy. Your Mom and Dad.β€