We often wonder as kids that once we grow up,what are we going to do?What profession will we choose?What shape our life will take once we join this profession?Though all we do in our childhood is wishful thinking.We don't understand the importance of our future till the time we don't pass our 10th Grade.After that there are questions from everywhere,our friends,relatives and neighbors(who really don't care about anything but just to downgrade us they ask such questions).After such questions we realize that we really need to think about our future.
Some people are well prepared for their future and some are not.The ones who don't know completely rely on their parents for their advice as they think it might be useful for them in the future.Some people who know what they want to do in life are often stopped by their parents for pursuing it.Most of the cases I have seen is parents often think that by becoming a doctor/engineer or a government servant their child will be successful.Parents think that people get salary only in such jobs.For example,if a child wants to pursue acting but is forced into becoming an engineer or a doctor that is what hampers a child's life.
This leads to a lot of problems.Some people who don't have the potential of studying such a subject is forced into this,knowing that this child is not going to survive for more than a day in that field,parents still throw their children into such quagmire knowing the consequences.Most of these students commit suicide,some attempt and get saved.The ones who get saved are subjected to the same kind of atrocities again.Only few people get their lesson.And the ones who loose their child forever realise what mistake they have done by throwing away their child without even asking what their child must be going through.
I have seen a lot of children going through this pain.If you don't get the required marks people think you are not efficient,you are dumb.People don't see the hard work that goes behind their studies.Parents play an important role in choosing a child's future.Only the rebellious ones find their way out of this labyrinth,others who follow and obey their parents get stuck into this situation.The only lesson we should take from this blog is that in future if our child wants to pursue a particular field and is very much interested in it then we shouldn't hamper the child's interest.We should give that child metaphorical wings to fly.If we support our children in future,it doesn't matter whatever the salary is or whatever the job is,we should support our children in all cases.One step can change the lives of our future generations…….
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