Published Jun 20, 2021
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Comparison Is Thief Of Joy

Published Jun 20, 2021
2 mins read
411 words

One of the most common and destructive daily habit is to consistently compare your life with others, to determine how well they are doing in life and base personal value on that. however, that usually doesn't lead to feeling too good about yourself. Comparing ourselves to others allows them to drive our behavior. This type of comparison is between you and someone else. Sometimes its about something genetic , like wishing to be taller, but more often its about something the other person is capable of doing that we wish we could do as well. We're often comparing their best features against our average ones.

Sometimes, we fall in trap of being jealous of someone else's success instead of celebrating it .This doesn't make us bad people , but does mean we could put too much stock in comparing ourselves with others. Quite frankly , this is surefire recipe for a drop in self confidence and for unhappiness. 

You can be anything but you can't be everything. By comparing ourselves to others will not only make unhappy but also it can be destructive, we end up focusing our energy on bringing them down instead of raising ourselves.

There is one thing that you're better at than other people :being you . this is the only game you can really win. When you start with this mindset the world starts to look better again. No longer you are focused on where you stand relative to others, instead your focus and energy is placed on what you're capable of now and how you can improve yourself.

The first step to stop comparing yourself to others is to realize that comparisons are often negative. You should think about why you feel the need to compare yourself to others, and think of how that may be impacting you. By realizing these things , you'll be able to move forward and stop wasting time on comparison .

Be happy for others instead of feeling jealous , be motivated , not competitive- turn your emotion into a motivation , be confident about yourself, be positive and happy with who you are, realize no one is perfect.  

Its so important to being able to look at your own strengths, and see your true value .its actually one of the key to success, because without this ability , you will be unmotivated and won't believe in yourself.

Don't rush the progress .Allow yourself to grow at your own pace.

#Dont compare
#Be yourself
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