Pretty sure everyone of us at some point of time has faced something really unfair, and always wondered how to give it back to them.
Though the synonym of this is Revenge, but the ultimate rule of nature is, what we get we need to give it back! Be it the 100 bucks you owe for a friend or a punch to the face of a guy who eve teased you!
Well the whole point of human life is in socializing, so in order to evolve as humans
there is definitely give and take! Coming to the point of how much of the negativity that we received is to be given back? Let's divide them into three categories!
The first type: Negligible
In this category, it is when the people you very often bump into will be giving you certain statements that may trouble your inner peace, there are two possibilities for this, either the person is jealous of your development or the person radiates negativity! In such condition try walking away from them if possible, if not then try ignoring their statements! Once they wouldn't get proper response it will definitely discourage them from approaching you. At the utmost case tell me them directly that you aren't liking this! without worrying on the consequences!
The second type: Immediate Action
In this category, it's about when someone tries to misbehave with you or taunt on your personality, family and culture! Sometimes it's absolutely necessary to demote ourselves to the person in front in order to teach them a lesson, so it's okay to slap someone if they try to touch you in a wrong way, because if we take back at that moment thinking it may reduce us to a cheap level it leaves a question mark on our self respect!
The third type : Plan and Action
Psychologically the 3 feet around us, every human being considers as their area, and that's why we don't seem comfortable when the person we dislike comes in that circumference! Definitely all of us will have such a person in our lives, now the point is they are the real motivators! You have one thing to do! Be better than them, turn out to be so successful in your life that they would feel ashamed to stand in front of you! Someone rightly said success is the best revenge!
So it all depends on how we react to situations, sometimes we over react and other we may under react. But the most important factor is no matter how we receive it, while giving back we should not loose our consciousness are react to it.
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