Published Dec 3, 2023
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The Known Became The Unknown

Published Dec 3, 2023
3 mins read
591 words

I have never trusted anyone to come close to me. But there were some people whom I trusted to come close last year. “FRIENDS” this is a very strong word. I have done calling someone a friend. Lets take you all back a year ago:
Last year I met few people and very few got to the level of the trust and with very few "very few" were the one I got emotionally attached to. When we met, it was butterflies (not love) in my stomach that how someone can be this good. But few months down the road there was one person whom i got really attached to. You that feeling when you just one look or the smile of a special person is enough to make your day. But there is an interesting theory which I never believed which is: Your bond will stay the same till the time one of the other person gets to know about how special you are to them, apparently you will become of no good doesn't matter how special you treat. 

“People who have hundreds will not be bothered by you leaving them because to them you are just anybody else, but to the person who have people to count on fingers and when you leave to its like one of his finger got chopped off". Mean while I got to know the importance I gave to her in my life, the position I gave to her, the priority given to her was not the same from her side. It was the one sided ship (can't tag anything), be it friendship be it relationship it has to be from both side. Yes, I know when you get emotionally attached to someone you overlook these things and its absolutely correct sometimes people are more important than being calculative but only sometimes not all the times. To all the readers who all reading this, make sure if there is a person who is ready to die for you, he/ she is stays ALIVE with you. Its not that difficult to compare what is correct and wrong; the that makes your hear heavy is wrong and the one that reliefs your heart is correct, I know that's very simple to say but when it comes to actually do its difficult to do it practically. They say they care and keep you close, they do but only to a extent where in you will be close enough to make sure their needs are fulfilled. 

And you know what's the most comic part about this whole becoming unknown is that, that person will not make it evident it will be such a sweet kill that you will get to know about who is killing whom but till the time you will be so much involved into him/ her you would prefer to portray things are absolutely fine and things will fall apart. Suddenly you will realize he or she was the reason for you smile in the morning and suddenly everything seems to be exciting but now its but now that person existence doesn't matter alive or dead or well or not-well   absolutely nothing. That's when you realize the fact that that person was not special but it was you and your honesty and your love that was special. 

If you are on the other side of the story and have fooled someone just remember its not you who are smart, its person who ignored your true intentions. 
                            "Bad times always teaches,
                               whom to spend good times with." 

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vishal_27042004 12/7/23, 9:33 AM
Good
hema.latha18 12/14/23, 1:58 AM
last words is 100% true Bad times always teaches whome to spend good time. like words

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