Everyone will be only telling how beautiful your life  will be  when you get a baby. YES .. they are correct having a baby of yourself is the most beautiful thing but no one will tell you how  postpartum life look like. Postpartum means the period after you gave birth. It was the most crucial period according to a new mother. Because there is a thing called ' POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION'. It is the time span where a new mother needs care and attention . Also they are going through so much hormonal changes .They wont even know what is going on their life. They will be experiencing serious emotional break downs . Along with that on one hand when you can't get enough sleep , personal time, time to look after your body and hair  and the other hand your baby cries , don't sleep as you expected .. how would it be.. Worse ... RIGHT?. 
That is the moment you need someone with compassion and love to hear you out... You will be needing your husband only at that time . You will be expecting him to say it's okay i am with you always . Lets figure this out together . Because Postpartum depression is not a simple phase . It should be handled very carefully.
               Sad part is that majority of people doesn't even know that postpartum depression exists . Mainly the aunties who will give you free advise like when i gave birth  i was like this i was like that and all ... don't even give  attention to their words because they are just blabbering . when we say that there is a situation called postpartum depression and you are going through that they will be like what the hell is Postpartum depression .. I haven't heard like that in my entire life. And also they will give you toxic positivity like saying ..it will be okay.. you will get used to it .. you are not only the women who gave birth in this entire world.. just get over it ... look at your baby when your are having that so called postpartum depression. We should have the guts to say 'Shut up' . 
                If your beloved partner is ready to help you or give you support mentally this postpartum depression can be resolved so easily . And also you will be  noticing  that a cute small little person means a world to you eventually. Babies are always a gift from god to cover  all your pain .