whatever you do some people can never be satisfied. they always find ways to hurt, insult, criticize etc., they are called “toxic people” . they try their level best to pull down someone just to comfort their ownselves.so how do u ignore such people for a better living?

here are my tips to get over them:

1.love yourself:

yes you read that right! start loving yourself. appreciate yourself for who you are. try practicing some easy self care remedies to keep you involved . start focusing more about yourself and eventually and you'll get over them!  remember that self love is not selfish!!

2.reality hits hard:  

 understand the reality , they want you to be felt lower to them and hence they're doing all of this.. do you even think you can satisfy them? never! so accept the fact that they'll never change and focus in ways to improve yourself. 

3.no to negativity: 

  don't take the words they speak to your heart. they want you to get hurt .that's why people use  all those derogatory words.. so if you get hurt and feel low then you are allowing them to dominate and control you!. never let yourself to be controlled by someone who's not even worth of talking to you.

4.engage in self motivating habits:

engage yourself in some or the other  activity to completely forget them. it might be reading a book , going for a walk, singing, blogging, etc., these help you drift your memories and concentration from them and  help find your inner peace!

5. short-talk the best remedy: 

if the person who is toxic to you is unavoidable like your boss, colleague, etc., then you can try short talk to give them the cold shoulder.

reply to them with just a yes or no which makes it difficult for them to build the conversation. you can also try late replies if the message is not on any work purpose. this will avoid the unnecessary drama they try to create and play the victim card!  

6. go unreachable:

stop being available for them. they never wanted you to be better than them..so why do make yourself always available for such people? .let them wait if they really need you or let them get out of your life .!   never reduce your standards ! keep your head high and work for yourself!

I hope this would be of use! and never forget "to love the real, unique, beautiful person that you are!"