So, It is all about how I spend my time in the evening these days in the lockdown and how it changed my perspective and what I learnt from it really got stuck in my head after then . Yes, I started playing Carrom again these days with my mom and sis , just to not feel very bored or lazy. I didn’t think that ,while playing this game , something so serious like this would make me stop and think about it for so long . I will tell you how we can learn from anything and anyone at any point of time. And for this , you only need one thing , THE LEARNING ATTITUDE , THE CONCENTRATION on what you are doing right now.
Okay, let’s begin with that moment . So, we three were playing and enjoying the game so much. Phones on silent mode and no disturbance. Yeah, indoor games ask you for your mental alertness. I was winning at the start but , what a game is all about if you keep on winning or you keep on losing. Game is similar to life , you will confront victory and failure. So, ummm back to the story , that moment came when I realized that whenever , OKAY GIVE SOME ATTENTION HERE whenever I used to ruin my turn , the person next to me was ready to defeat me .
I mess up my chance - I make a way for my contender by my own sweet will. I played my turn but did not give my best. It was my only fault. So you see….
It happens everywhere , because Competition is OMNIPRESENT . At school , in the office , during a game / sports and the like .The person standing against you is waiting for you to lose your turn so that he could make it by learning from your mistakes. That precious day should not get wasted by you , otherwise, you will lose it man, and maybe you won’t get a second chance . And if your luck favors you and you get the chance again , then too . it won’t feel the same way as the first one did . So, if you lose your first spin and the next person wins the game .
Remember this thing by heart - He didn’t win because he was the best , he won because you let him , by losing your chance , by not mastering your game , by not practising enough to beat him , by not concentrating on the details before and during the real game.
You surely will get your chance someday or the other for something you have been preparing for so long , which you have dreamt of. But, look outside , your contenders are doing the same or even more than what you are doing . Be that focused and determined person who will nail it , if gets a chance.
Have you ever thought of leveling up ? Mastering your skill like nobody else ? ..
If you are good at it - If you do something unique - Level it up - Show it to the world what you got - Own it like a Boss.