Is parenting failing?

Is parenting  a headache?  No matter how hard you try, it doesn't work.  What remains is intense stress, complaints, and vulnerability.  Only dissatisfaction remains.  how about  - There are many parents who go through this situation.
It is often the nature of such parents to blame their children for this.  But is it true?  Why do parenting fail?  Let's see where the problem is.

💡Past
Parents who live by regretting and complaining about the past may also fail in parenting.  In fact, there are many problems in the personality of these people.  They get even more complicated when it comes to parenting.

💡Negative…
Parents who follow a negative pattern of speech and behavior fail at parenting.  And it even destroys the child's future.  These are the parents who take words and actions from their children like you are worthless, you don't know anything, etc.  This only puts the child in a worse situation.

💡Mistakes…
Some parents are not ready to admit their mistakes in front of their children.  And it does not hesitate to make children guilty to hide it.  Children who grow up seeing and experiencing this follow the same pattern.  So this habit becomes a headache for the parents themselves in the future.

💡Blaming
Tell only the children's mistakes and faults.  If you think that you can correct them through this, you are wrong.  There will be huge consequences.  The feeling of being worthless becomes stronger in them.

💡Orders…
Speaking like an authority figure, like giving orders to your children, can make parenting harder.  Children should be given love and care.

💡Let me clarify

You are a child and you don't need to know that.  This approach is not correct.  Things need to be explained clearly and understood.  But the right way is not to hide from them or  make it clear.

💡*Too much expectation…*

There are parents who put the burden of too much expectation on their children from a young age.  This will only serve to create dissatisfaction and stress in both them and you.  Let them grow according to their potential.  It is the duty of parents to try to make them better.  But by imposing excessive expectations on children is always give negative impact to them

           By following all these things we can make good parenting. Being a parent is not a small things, it also brings nice feeling and happiness. So be good parents.