Just because he's weari#ng a smile on his face, doesn't mean he's fine. He is laughing with people around him, it doesn't suggest he's happy. He might not be giving up because he doesn't want to open. He acts as if he's enjoying the rainbow after a rainfall. He might also not allow the sun to come in. He is holding up strong, even he wants to shed all his worries. He is not sleeping, but he wants to rest. He is not allowing anyone to come to know about the cyclones inside him because he was born to be responsible for himself and people depending on him. He is not crying, but he is not the one who forgot what he went through. He is not a coward. He knows how to fight the war with him. He can be alone, he can be depressed, he can be a lunatic, he can be the real meaning of a narcotic. But He won't let anyone even know the inside of him. Because he is a real man. And he is responsible for being so. Situations that arise due to natural reasons or those belonging to karma all belong to a category where the head of the family or house, that's usually a man, has to take responsibility for making sure that thesehhg complications won't affect anyone he is responsible for. Even if the decisions he needs to take belong to him or not. He has to make sure that he stands still and fights and fights, what so ever the difficulty is, he needs to be firm and act as if he is the "Angel of God" who knows how to resolve.

A few days ago I was reading a story of a well-grown man, a family person who was crying alone in the women compartment of a train. Apart from the thought that would have killed him from the inside of being blamed as a molester or so. But still his mental trauma had made him so weak that he couldn't even realise what and where he was shedding his tears. On being asked about the reason for his big, bold droplets falling from his eyes. He shared how the family problems—either they were related to health issues or personal— had made him so weak that he wanted to scream out loud in public but couldn't. He accepted being blamed for harassment than to cry out loud and let everyone around, including his family, know that "He might be a man, but he also needs someone to understand what he is going through."