Hello  everyone! Hope you all are doing good. Today I'm gonna share two of my favourite poems/shayaris. There are a lot and I'll share them too but lets start with these first.

This is super relatable to all poets and writers out there. Every time I write a poem on love or tragedy in love, the most common question they throw is “Did you broke up recently?” Buddy no! We are writers. We are creators. We can write fiction or non-fiction. And for that we may draw the inspiration from our imagination and not just from the reality. We many times cook up matters in our head.

See for us LOVE is like that basic moral value (just as “Sanskar” is the most important value for the society). It is the foundation of our creations. We try to find the essence of love in every element of nature. And even though we are not having a tragic love life or not a happy one either, it doesn't matter. We can create the situations as we might have wanted or as they could've been.

But the pain in our writings, it's real. We would have experienced that in our life at one point or the other. May be not always personally but we get connected to others miseries easily. I'm not sure if I know the reason behind that but it's the fact.

And now this one! I don't know if the mama's boys and dad's girls can relate this to or not but I'm sure there will be somebody out who can find this situation familiar.  This is the problem with conservative families. They are still living in the world where a person either has a problem or there is no problem at all. But there is one more situation - Fighting with your problems and eventually Heal yourself out of that. These both go hand in hand. For them this phase doesn't exist at all. They see anxiety and depression as a scam!

They think as they are fulfilling all wishes of their child there are no more things for them to be sad about. “We are providing you with food so you don't have to worry about earning money.” “ You are getting all the luxuries so you should be satisfied with that always.” “ What more do you want?” But do really are miseries limited to these? What about the issues related to friendship, love life, bullies, career and what not?

And when we try to explain all these to them they go like “you're just taking too much pressure, don't take so much tension, you're having headache take a paracetamol”. Guys grow up! Tension is a very simple term but for today's generation anxiety has become very common and it is way more complicated than “tension”. 

I've understood one thing clearly. If you're parents are open minded then they are the best gift you've got. Share everything with them. You'll no longer have to depend on somebody else to open your heart out. But if they are not… you better keep it a secret. Because it hurts when the person you've confided in doesn't understand you and state your problems a sham. It will make the situation worse. Find yourself a Bestfriend or try to keep a Journal. Who is a better savior for you than yourself!

Hope you like it, relate it! See you soon with another blog. Until then stay safe, stay happy!

#SM🤞🏼

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