The truth is unless you let go,unless you forgive yourself,unless you forgive the situation,unless you realise the situation is over,you cannot move forward---steve maraboli.
I think every girl has that one guy and every guy has that one girl they have trouble letting go of.I think moving on is just a matter of putting past behind us.I mean you want to move on??then just forget about the past!Get over it.look onward to the future.Keep yourself busy.Just be yourself and love yourself first no matter where you are..uhh that's not so easy often we think we have moved on but we haven't we keep telling ourselves that we have moved on but at some point we realised that no we haven't..this has happened with many of us..isn't it??
Thinking you have moved on and really moved on are two separate situations altogether You think you have been liberated but the truth is you are still living in a mental prison as you keep thinking about the person and past memories. This prevents you from receiving new things in your life.The moving on process will take time,probably longer than you might think.If you are still holding on to what could have been, it’s time to release yourself. No more mental torture or mental inhibitions. No more holding yourself back for something that cannot come to pass.
There are five steps to move on:
1.You must reduce contact with them
2.You must forgive them
3.Recognize that they are not one for you
4.Recognize that there is something out for you
It might be hard to believe as you move on from a broken past but it's TRUE! There's no reason why you shouldn't think so..I don’t care how many relationships you’ve been in the past, how many wrong men/women you’ve been with or whether you’ve never been in any real relationships. You’re definitely not the only single out there in the world. There are around 7 billion people in the world. For every couple you see out there, there are multiples of other singles.There is someone out there for you.Meanwhile focus on living your best life in your definition.Most importantly, remember that your life doesn’t and shouldn’t hinge on having a special partner or not. We are complete by ourselves and relationships should not be there to complete us.
Trust me when I am saying moving on it will be a long process.However I am finding peace within myself.I have learned to love who I am becoming and myself.Hopefully this will gonna help you as well so you pretty and beautiful soul just move there's a life way ahead one day you will definitely realise that this all was so easy…because yes time itself is a best healer…be happy keep smiling forever…
THANKYOU…