When we all are digging our own mistakes and trying to explain things to the person infront of us ,and end up making things more complicated not only by thinking what the next person is thing but with this our own mentality we kill our own vibe!

After all we all do this some or the other time but what can be done with this situation ? The answer is all straight up and since the problem arising is in our head and people often say “if problem is in your head then answer lies with you!”but, let me clear this in a very short and modern way- 

If that would be so easy then no one would strech the issue inside for such long, yes we can control it! But, only the Atmosphere around us needs to be in good vibe , 

if the mind is not in a state of doing hobbies which we really love to do then one must needs to have a talk a funnier one, a loved one  . Now people think with this they need family ,we really need to understand that not always they would help , yes they will listen but their thoughts to the situation will be different , we must not expect that they will agree with us always .we should just say what is in our head but before their is a easy trick to solve out what should be said;

Following the trick1)

Just for our satisfaction record your own things on phone recordings sometimes it makes you feel easy and a better feel.

2) don't try to everything to your parents if they are narrow minded ,because they will try to stop you then. Sometimes we have to accept the family behaviour and work according to it.

This may seem like hiding things but no , sometimes just by telling what is inside your head by mood swings etc, family hypers and because of their different state of mind they don't understand and then the only thing which happens is fight between.

        So, rather Being angry and mood swingged we should talk with friends and just chill the mind  and forget about why others parents are so cool, why they but with me why? Leave this just , accept that all minds are different so, you have your own identity and mind to rule .love lies in us and we must understand that.