Mostly all of the people grew up hearing that marriage is all about compromise, sacrifice and adjustments…

But we all should also the extent of that compromise. We should certainly know the proper definition of the word “ADJUSTMENT”…that how much and in what extent we all should apply these terms in our relationships.

Its more better to………."Don't believe in compromises," 

AND 

“Believe in giving space and accept each other perceptions towards life”

Dont play a blame game and also dont  defined marriage as "a negotiation in which both sides give something up everytime"

To make marriage life blissful and not an SO CALLED ADJUSTMENT start learning and developing the habits of each others. You'll be amazed by how much you'll learn about each other through this process and how many false assumptions are revealed . 

The reason you must do little adjustments to make your understandings better are absolutely fine, but if it lasts a long time and you do adjustments every time, then you will be hurting both yourself and your spouse. 

If both of you accept each other emotions as a person who you are….and dont try to change yourself for the sake of own satisfaction, then the life will become beautiful. Try to improvise yourself and  instead of expecting from other only.

Therefore, do not try to improve them. They too, should not attempt to improve you. Whatever they are like, tell yourself, 'they are as good as gold'. You cannot improve anyone’s inherent characteristics and traits no matter how hard you try.  So be careful and let them be the way they are. 

Your married life should become independent of each other's too much expectations. You should love teach other more than other one,  you cherish each other's counsel,  appreciate the association.

BUT

 you must also live your own lives independently but together by maintaining proper space, being governed by your own decisions without intervention of anyone's else.

Lastly, 

It is a very true that all successful  relationships specially marriage requires lots of adjustment throughout the life. But your skills and attitudes can aid the adjustment or in other words it can transform the word adjustment into  a loving and caring relationship, healthy communication, common goals,  forgiveness, reconciliation, and confidentiality any many more.

So it is in your hand that whether you want to just make the relationship for the sake of making it OR you want to make it a BLISS for you and your loved ones