In continuation with Part 1 and 2……
"Don't eat this!"
"Don't go there!"
"Stop talking to your friend!"
"Stop watching TV, Mobile!"
There are endless number of things which parents tell their kids continuously and continuously. Nobody wants to raise a child who doesn't understand his/her limits, but Parents frequently saying NO to kids can results in kids become deaf to it, and the word loses its power. They forget that being negative all the time can kill the impact of their saying even that's for good. Being TOO NEGATIVE or SAYING NO all the time can effect your child immensly in a negative manner.
To fix: So parents need to understand that they should restrict their kids whenever necessary and not all the time.
In general. firstly make sure that your home is a place where your child feels touchy, happy, comfortable and secure all the times .
Because children always learn from observation i.e. what their parents are doing, how their peers are behaving etc. . They are always likely to imitate what they see, so it is very important you to keep the peace and avoid fightings /arguments with each other as well as any kind of insulting behavior with anyone, which can cause negative impact on your child'd brain.
To fix : If you want he/she to become polite and obedient to everyone, so you have to give that environment to your kid also.
Every child is different from other kid, so it is not necessary that what worked with one child, also will work for other one. It's very easy to blame your kid when he/ she fails in something . While one child might respond to verbal reminder only, the other might need an explanation when they act up.
To fix:The best way to deal with your kid is to get down at eye level and explain how the actions need to be done. Explain everything in a friendly manner and don't try to give directions.
