One day Aisha r.a asked the Prophet (s.a.w) how he would describe his love for her.
The Prophet Muhammad answered. saying:"Like a strong binding knot". The more you tug the stronger it gets.
So every often 'Aisha playfully ask How is the knot.
The Prophet would answer
“As strong as the first day u asked”
I Do Not Help My Wife
A friend come my home for a coffee, he sat and talked about his life. At some point in the conversation, "I said I"m going to wash the dish and "I" will b right back"
He looked at me like I said I am going to build space rocket. Then he said to me that I"m glad that u help your wife. But I dont help my wife because when I do she does not praise me. Last week I help her in washing floor but no thanks. Then I went back and sit with him and explained to him that i not help my wife. My wife does not need help She need a partner. I am a partern at home and throught society divided functions, but its not a help to do household chores.
I dont help my wife to cleaning the house because i live here to i have to clean it too.
I. dont help my wife to cook because i also want to eat and i need to cook. I am not a help at home, I am part of the house. and as for praising I asked my friend when it was the last time after his wife finished all the house and you said thank you to her. But you once in a lifetime cleaning the house you expect a thankyou from her. Than praise her as you want to be praised,in the same way in the same intensity.Give her a hand behave like a true partner, not a guest.