Hello People,
Hope you all doing good !
Motherhood has never been easy..do you agree to this? Its always been a rollercoaster for me personally.
As time passes on we just feel oh ya its just this phase and after that all will be back on track , no no no its not gonna be like that..not yet for me🤭
During the age of 0-6 months -
When the baby is born first it would be the breastfeeding part it would be very energy draining , sleepless nights, but ofcourse when you see your baby's cute innocent face n smile all the pain and worry would be gone. Along with this if you have a caring and loving hubby everything would be balanced.
During the age of 6 months -1.5 years.
When you think about breastfeeding or bottle feeding you will think once baby starts having solid food things will be easy for you it would be messy and babies likes and dislike for food will keep you on your toes all day trying different food ,fruits, shapes …..
Once they start crawling you need to be very careful they would pick any thing and that would directly go into their mouth, they explore everything like that..
During the age of 1years - 2.5 years
Then you will think once baby starts walking it would be better …their first baby steps are one of the happiest moment . Then they are just running around the house and u need to keep finding them and make sure they dont reach out for wrong things and keep them safe always..one word during this phase that would be always on your lips would be NO NO NO BABY, NOT THAT, NOT THIS……You will get tired saying the word “ no ”. Instead of using the word no please start using some positive terms like - it will hurt if you touch the hot cup or sharp things…..
You should let them explore things when you are with them then only they would learn lot of things.
Once you are done with above things then comes the Potty and pee training that has been draining my energy a lot now a days..
Its not easy i agree but your patience is the key and dont scold the baby they are in their learning phase mistakes would happen but you have to stay positive and things will be good. The good news is my baby just turned 2 years and have started keeping herself dry now thats a big relief.
During the age of 2 years
Baby copies everything you do that is so much fun to see ..But you need to be very careful too about what you are doing in front of your kids (your behaviour, manners, your actions….)
There would be days you just need a break , some me time , you need someone to just take care of the baby like the way you take care, but the thing is you dont trust anyone when it is about your kid(hubby is always there to help you out so just ask for help and do it😇) Take that break it would do wonders and make you feel more light and happy ..
Kids make us happy always with their innocence.
Many more phases to come..just waiting to experience it😇