Hii Guys, hope this topic will loved by all of you as we are and will going to create the coming generation . So let's start with a mind to bring a change for betterment of being married. As always most people says that the single life was best, they miss that life blah blah blah. But the big why is still going on from ancient times. 

I from my experience can say that always the sons are being taught and told about how to treat their parents after marriage, they should not forget their parents who raise them, make them a man they are today, spended a lot of money on their studies and now it's their time etc. these are all the sayings they listen before and after marriage too. Yeah I agree with you, they are right at their place. Yes it's I also say that it's the responsibility of the son that goes with him till death to take care of his parents. But ever happen that the sons are seriously being teach about his wife ? What are the duties and responsibilities he has towards his wife to be? No but he has been very well taught about his rights towards being her husband, the duties and responsibility his wife must fulfil etc. I feel like the man are being created from childhood with values, manners and habits mostly around his parents, his brothers and sisters. What actually they must be teach along with this is about his soulmate. The responsibility, duties he gets after being married. But here is a Big “NO”. Because there are plenty of reason or I say actually the mindset they had like their son will become someone's else, he will not listen to them blah blah… Guys here the list of questions doesn't end its long .. 

Reasons of this behaviour are:

• Hypocrisy
• Mentality
• Culture/ tradition that has been carried from years
• Fear

A CHANGE IS MUST & WE CAN BRING FOR NEW GENERATION. 

A Special Note for Mothers

Be a Mother to raise a son who treats his wife with love, care & respect, honor, who without fail fulfills the duties & responsibility towards his wife as he does for his parents. 

Change can be brought by :

• Teaching your sons from childhood the value & manner he has towards both parents & his wife. 
• Don't taunt your son when he does something good  for his wife. 
• Don't ever use tone or set examples that hurt the ego of your son & create a mentality of his mind that if he helps his wife he lose honor. 
• Instead of buying your children all the things you never had, you should teach them all the things you were never taught. Material wears out but knowledge stays. 

Remember :-  you are not raising your son….you are raising somebody's husband &somebody's father. Raise him well !