Unfortunately many of my friends love to call the so called "break up" situation as the most bad times in their life. This is actually depressive period for some people but I have noticed a number of people pretending to be completely lost in love. Love is all pervasive emotion which can be your strength as well as your weakness. Why can't you use this love for optimistic turning point in your life?? Generally love can happen between two individuals and at certain point, they might have to end it up. But instead of degrading the other person, please try to accept your faults and move on in your life.

Being a human we must understand one thing, our lives consist of happiness and sadness. The decision of break up might hurt you but just make it a point to realise that sadness will lead us to a positive note in life. We cannot think that every love relation will be successful so better not to indulge so deeply into any relation. Dealing with a relationship is similar to learning swimming. In beginning phase of love we cannot understand the other person's deep inner self completely just like trying to swim on the surface of a waterbody. But gradually we will delve into depth of waterbody just like knowing your partner completely. Some people will compromise to certain extent which will never exist for so long . In that sense, it is better not to adjust your life for some one else. It is always a brave decision to not spend your rest of the life with a person who can't be good partner. Just think is that a rise up time?

you were spending or wasting your time for someone who may not be that suitable to you. So break up is like a wake from a long deep sleep. During break up situation most of the people will lose their control over emotions and as a result of that they might fall into depression. But why can’t you use this situation to train yourself to have emotional stability .This can be a better space to understand yourself. Train your psyche to tune into your interest. Instead of putting up different break up post as your social media status, please try to transform your love for the other person, into something which will make you feel happy. After all it's you, who can give inner peace to your mind!!!