Published Jul 21, 2021
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Riding You Over A Guilt Trip.

Published Jul 21, 2021
2 mins read
435 words

No. No. No. I am going to do this for you, I am just going to express my thoughts on this line which I heard today in the morning itself. 

Good Morning my fellow bloggers. Every one of you out there must have heard this line in different forms at least once in your life. This is the only line that is free from castism and does not differentiate between males or females. Am I right? Yes, many males also hear this line when they try to follow their passion, do not want to carry on family business, want to live their lives on their own conditions, or allows their wife to live as they want. And About females, I think I do need to describe it here.  

The point that is going on in my mind is that is it always wrong to judge your close ones? Or it is the way of judging that is wrong and is letting the person next to you feel that you are making them go on a guilt trip?

If I make you understand it with a few examples of my life, my Mumma trying to make me choose the career path of her choice due to some reasons that are actually worth thinking about, is wrong? No. Not at all. Or, if I am trying to make my sister's daughter understand the circumstances and not letting her go out with her friends is wrong? No, it's not right? 

The only thing that I want to convey here is that we should learn the difference between the one who actually cares for us and all the others who merely do not want us to be happy or successful.

Try these points whenever you feel that you are being bullied or are made to go on a guilt trip.

  1. Who is talking to you: first of all, think about the person that is talking to you about anything. If that person is the one who actually cares for you then you actually need to think about what they are saying.
  2. The actual reason behind: try to find out the reason for which they are forbidding you from doing anything. The reason might be a social thing like, what the world will say. In 99% matters this line a worthless. But do you fall in that 1% category where this line actually mattes. The reason might also be family circumstances. 

When you finish doing these steps, go with your conclusion to the person who actually is the best for you. You will definitely find the right way. 

#guilt_trip
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