Hey guys, i hope you all are doing great!! As you see weather is just awesome and whenever the weather is just like that then i always have some strange thought in my mind, i just don't why, but i always have that. So, today i have a thought, is it easy to forgive someone who hurt us? Is it easy to forgive someone who we loved but they betrayed us? or is that right to forgive them?
So let's just talk more about it, we always have someone in our life whom we loved more than anything in this world, they can be anyone, from our family, our friends or our partners. But sometimes they does something that break us and we can't accept that the one we loved the most can betrayed us!! But at some point of life we accept that. We accept that we love them but they hurt us so much. Slowly we move on from that betrayal and move forward in our life. But can we forgive them? If i tell from my experience, forgiving the person who hurt you ca help so much in moving on. And yes, forgiving doesn't mean that you accept that person in your life, forgiving doesn't mean that you again give the chance to that person to hurt you again!!
Sometimes it happen that the person who hurt you and came back to you and said sorry you and wants to be the part of your life, again. It's totally up to you that you wants that person again in your life or not. But if you thinks that forgiving means accepting that person again in your life, so you are on the wrong track. Forgiving means you can accept the sorry of that person and have no grieve or anger against them. You have no problem with their happiness and also don't have anything from their sadness.
If you ask me then yes, forgiving is not that hard, if you wants to move on in your life and wants to live a happy life then forgiving people is the most important thing. By not forgiving someone, you are only hurting yourself, because if you will don't forgive then you don't forget and if you don't forget then you remind yourself again and again then they hurt you and by doing this, you are only hurting yourself.
So forgive people and live a happy and peaceful life!!