Published Apr 1, 2023
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An Obese Girl Next Door

Published Apr 1, 2023
3 mins read
659 words

Hi i am a girl next door. I was born with a golden spoon and had no issues in anyways. Suddenly it started i was 8yrs when i started becoming fat, it created so much pain in my life when people didn't want to see me as me but, i was tagged as “The fat girl”. They would insult me, no one would give me seat to sit. Some people denied to serve me food. I was always compared with all my cousins. They used to call me moti. Sometimes even my parents insulted me in railway station or bus stand talking about how fat i was, but I was too good at dance, i used to choreograph. I had good fame among my family and friends for my dancing. Every year i joined in school annual day. I used to be the girl who picked up the choreo fast and was always in the centre. In my 11th standard i changed school where no one knew about my talent. There it started, i was in school hostel with 15 others from my class they knew i dance and sing they used to encourage me and when i dance they used to enjoy and appreciate me. Our school annual day selection came i was rejected by my Vice principal because I was fat. My confidence broke. But i was asked to choreograph the dance and they bagged the cup. After school i went to college, i had so many friends, it was a blessing because nobody judged me for my physique. I was selected for fresher's day dance by my seniors but my super seniors were not happy with me being in the group. When i was about to quit all the seniors came n supported me saying if i am not allowed in the dance the dance won't happen my group too called quits. I learnt something that day that there are many to love me. I cried getting emotional next day we won second place and got the department's overall trophy too. I understood god always had a plan for me. I was in my second year i liked a guy who was fun to be with, he had the face profile i always dreamt of, he liked me too.we went for a tour with our mutual friends everyone liked me for my nature and bubbliness. But after we returned slowly he started pushing me away. I came to know later that his friends told him i was fat and he had to leave me, because of that without a closure he broke up with me. I went into depression, i couldn't handle my studies but i coped up in one and half years time, when I came to know he broke up with me and got committed with another girl in just 1 weeks time he carved her name in his chest i felt thank God.   The best part in my life was i overcame him, i fell in love again with my present husband who is my ex's friend. Have you heard god will give karma and if your lucky he would allow you to watch it? Well now my husband and I are attending all are mutual friend's function and he is seeing us as a happy couple with whole lot of jealousy and sadness in his eyes. I know this is bad but i am kind of enjoying it. Finally i came to know that how ever obese you are if you are worshipped by your husband that's enough to lead your life. He changed my world. He changed the way i see myself now i am a proud wife and a mom of two. Still i am continuing my dance in Instagram. Give lots of love to people around you. You don't know when one will need it.

     -I dedicate this to my man for seeing all my goodness and loving me.

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saranya.veeramuthu 4/18/23, 6:03 AM
Hi i am saranya.. I always support you. Keep supporting me as a friend.

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