Hello people! I hope you are all doing great
Today I have something interesting to talk about - LOVE
Love stories, romantic movies, beautiful proposals they all made fall for love hard. It became the most beautiful and pure emotion to ever exist for me, call me old time but it definitely gave me butterflies! I remember I was 15 when I fell in love for the first time with my best friend. Can't forget the shy smiles I carried all day but it was all so kiddish. I was 17, when I actually fell in love. Intense, strong and so serious. It was beautiful, I knew I have someone who is always going to be there for me and I felt complete. We lasted for about 1.5 years and at the end it became toxic. It made me scared to feel love again. I could not step out of my house for couple of months.
Gradually, it all faded, became memories of which I will always cherish the good parts. You know one thing I realized that individualism is so important in relationships. Being you, yourself and not changing or bringing in pretentious behavior is so important!
Now, I am 21, happy and I have someone with whom it feels safe and secure. I don't feel anxious instead protected. I laugh and I smile. All through my difficult times he stood strong along my side and always made me feel loved. I feel grateful for having him in my life because is just made me realize that what love should feel like. I am doing long-distance but he never made me feel distant. And I guess that's how it goes right? It just feels right. You are treated with respect and care.
The word love lost meaning for me but he made me believe in it again. Little gestures and surprises and compromises we made naturally and willingly for one another defines us. We respect each other's life and grow together.
I just want to say one thing, that wait for the right person to come along. Know your worth and what you deserve. Never settle for anything less because it is going to do nothing but hurt you. Love is supposed to be beautiful in its own way, give it a chance and you will see you life changed. Enjoy your life and you will always know if he is the right one for you, till then chill man, single is fun!
Thanks, have a good day y'all!