Do you know what toxic humans are? Hell Yea. We all do know. We all have been there. But are you one among them? Lets read this blog and recollect some memories to learn lessons.
Dalai Lama states that we should let go of negative people as they show up to share problems, complaints, fear and judgement on others and consider others to be their trash into which they can throw waste.
As humans we all have a dark side. What's important is to eliminate these negativities one by one. I will make it simple and short for you. Is your life filled with DRAMA? If yes, you got negative energy all around you.
Be confident to tell and show people that you ain't there for their drama. Ones you do this you will start noticing that trash talks start disappearing, you will start giving rather than taking and you will always have ears to listen to others rather than dominate them.
Stop reopening doors for toxic people and calling it seeking closure. You're delaying your healing process. I have been wounded innumerable times and the scares has helped me to grow. We all have bruises, not on our skin, but on our blood and flesh. Don't you want to heal and recover? How long will you keep letting yourself be treated like trash?
I have got this friend who has a huge circle of contacts. And I wonder how is it possible. You must be thinking why is it not possible as you yourself have hundreds and thousands of friends. But how can you satisfy and welcome these many humans into your life?
I ones had endless number of contacts on my phone. I always knew that hardly five out of them really cared for me. And one day decided to put an end to it. Now I got a very small circle and it gives me gratification for what I have become.
I am not a psychologist and I don't read mind. But from my experience what I believe is that we are able to have such humongous number of fiends because we are bogus. The problem lies when you become flexible and let everyone walk in and out of your life. You play the role of a pliable teenage mind so that you can fit in. Fit into the modern society, fit into the jamboree and fit into social media all for followers and fame.
Is popularity and stardom that you live for.
We repeat what we don't repair.
So get yourself fixed today.