Hello friends
    I hope all of you are sound and safe. I am here with another blog about parenting and how should we behave towards our children. I would like to demonstrate it from one of true life incidents of Man of Mercy.
In the name of Allah the Beneficent the most Merciful.
All praise is due to Allah the Almighty, Lord of the Universe.
May peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad s.a.w, His beloved Messenger.

In Islam, Allah has made certains rules for parents to raise their children.
1. Love your children.
2. Don't compel them to act against their will.
3. Don't be hard on them.
4. Don't impose your will over them
5. Give them time. Now a days 98% of parents have no time for their children. If not in the week days , try to give them time at least in the week ends.
6. Give them your heart through love and care. This will happen only when you give them your time and when you don't pressurise your willingness over them.

7. Respect your children

8.The three most important responsibilities of parents when a child is born are

• Give them a good name as it impacts on their character and life
• Educate them the difference between good and bad, educate them a better way of living.
• When they attain the age of marriage and if perfect match is found don't delay in getting them married as it saves them from sinning.

    Our beloved Prophet Muhammam s.a.w (may peace and blessings be upon him) spent 7 years of his life with his grandchildren but he never advised them anything. He just used to let them play in his lap. He used to play with them like a kid. Our beloved Prophet had said, "Don't even tell to your children to offer prayers untill unless they are of 7 years". What should we do utill then? We have to take care of them in our laps. 
    A father's shadow and a mother's love is obtained when we let them grow in our lap which means that we have to be close with them. 

This closeness between parents and children will occur only when parents give time to their children and play with them like kids due to which they will become actual "HUMAN BEING". If we don't pay attention to them then children will become animals of forest.

I will continue it in the next blog which holds the true incident which I mentioned above as the blog becomes quite long ….untill then take care….

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-Redbird✒