Hope you people are doing good and staying safe. There's always a phrase that says, “everyone has had at least one relationship in their lifetime, love is what runs the world”. Well I'm not sure about that, but I'm sure that not all of them have had a happy relationship. Love was once only about a guy and a girl. Now we have so many gender identifications, fancy tags that define love and much more. Fancy tags are to be ignored, but there are some basic tags to be in a healthy relationship I'd say.

“Love is all about trust and understanding”. This will forever be the ultimate rule of the relationships book. Toxic relationships happen when there is a lack of trust, dominance of one partner, not being honest, simply if you are not happy with the relationship. Toxic relationship is now funny because the word is so much saturated and people just use them to act cool. A toxic relationship can ruin a life as much as a healthy relationship that can appreciate life. It can leave behind a scar forever and the trauma can be a never ending nightmare. Isn't it amazing how a stranger can change our lives forever? Having a relationship must be embraced by the people involved, which should not be stressed.

There are ways to transform a toxic relationship into a healthy one, and there are also ways to recover from the trauma that a toxic relationship gives you. Communicate, build trust, set margins, be clear with your priorities. If you are done with the relationship, that's okayyy. Your mental health matters. When someone reaches out to you with relationship issues, don't take it lightly. Talk to them, the least good we can do is to talk nice to them. People, depression, traumatic relationships and anxiety are real issues and deserve to be treated. If you have been assaulted by your partner and want any legal help, there is a whole lot of people out there to help you. If you have been mentally ill because of your relationship, there are doctors, therapists, and other people who can take care of you. Never hesitate to get therapy and never be afraid to come out and speak for yourself. If you have a loving family or a trusted friend, just seek help from them. And always remember, you're not alone. 

I have personally seen and heard people cry about their relationship issues and that isn't easy. Not only if you have a loving family or a trusted friend, you can always talk to me or reach out to me through your blogs ;) Bye for now!