Hey, guys I am writing my opinion to serve the purpose of creating a better world, so I hope my opinion will not be judged in the basis of our perception towards gender.

Gender in the very sense is a conflicting notion, in order to give rights and privileges to one section of the society the rights of other should not be snatched. If we do we will not be talking about equality we would be marching towards the new era of conflict.

The rising concern of gender in our society.

Its a wonder how women nowadays, are given much of liberty and freedom due to the rising topic of gender equality, but the concern is we can find females from the age of 13 starts to smoke, consume alcohol, come home late, enter into a relationships that become disaster in their life, and when they are grown up and married after a certain years they files a divorce and say we are independent and its all the same for male too.

Its all about the age and phrases in life and we are not in a race to compete with the same species of ours.

The trend nowadays we see is a women would readily accept a man to do all the understanding and hardship for her and smile when the boy's say “ladies first”, then why the same girl would not initiate to pay the bills arising out of her eatables and responsibility then say yes “ladies first”, and bear a little hardship of her male counterpart.

We see women nowadays, are bold, talented and has helped to mark an era of gender and sex neutrality but another side of the coin take us to the sad note that a women in order to live her life like a men, has put herself in danger. They now travel alone at nights, drink alcohol in bars and pubs in late nights and take drugs just to prove her braveness side by side her male counterpart again to prove his understanding and accelerating their feminist perspectives allow their women to do so, as the question is, does our notion of equality does not distinguish between good and bad or it's just baised in order to provide exclusive benefit to one section of of the society over other?.

If a women really want to be equal then rather spending time and effort in imitating men's toxic traits learn to educate yourself, learn to protect yourself from the evil people around, learn to say no to wrong deeds, learn to explore the world and help the society to evolve as a better world. Learn to make money through hardwork and teach the coming generations that if we want to be equal, you must think you are equal at the first place and act in the same way.

As males are obliged to protect and feed their families which needs them to be more strong physically and mentally, but as we see in our society due to gender bias in occupational pattern between male and female, a whole family depends on one male member for their livelihood, bringing poverty and hardship for the whole family and also to their respective societies.

To be independent, bold, stubborn, short tempered, living and travelling alone are the choices which human make in their lives and it doesn't imply that those traits are exclusive rights of either male or female.

If we aren't willing to accept that men too are human and women should also be willing to make a space in the society with their ability and willingness, then in what ground men will learn that women too can out pass them in every ground, nobody will drag women's out from their  comfort zone if they develop a habit of seeking help and privileges in every matter from their male counterparts. 

If the society can distinguish between male, female and transgender and the same society can put frock on female and pants to make while discriminating the another gender, then why the same society is unable to teach them that they are human first and clothes are to cover the body not the soul.

Thankyou for reading…… lets thrive for the change…..