How does it feel when someone puts you down? When does someone question you about the way you live? When everybody around you just wants to cut off your beautiful wings to control you? When everyone tries to make your life function according to their terms and conditions?

We always wonder why can't we live on our own terms and conditions, why do our parents have to question or interfere in everything that we do? Why they can't just trust and let be and understand that we too are humans just like them and can learn to trust the process of their child growing up…
Life seems beautiful when you don't let anybody overpower you and your emotions. It seems liberating to be a free existent, living life on your own terms and conditions, doesn't it?

After being under the guidance and protection of family for many years, when you wish to be independent, you want to fly, you want to explore yourself, you want the world to know you as an individual and you want to build yourself, this is possible only when you develop a good bond with your own-self. 

It is only when you love yourself and find refuge within yourself will you only be empowered to control your life and emotions.
In today's fast-paced world you struggle to get your own space, to sip a cup of tea/coffee in silence, to stop for a moment and feel the cool breeze and engage in such small but enriching and rejuvenating activities. Isn't it necessary to ensure that we have time and space to enjoy these little bits of life? 

Sometimes these little moments that we steal from our daily routine in the midst of all chaos, are all that we need to ponder upon our lives and review if we're heading in the right direction.
Nobody has the power to control you and deny you what you truly deserve in life. Beware! Beware of people you are emotionally dependent on… Since they are in the best position to exploit your independence and take advantage and put you down emotionally, drain you mentally and physically.
Belief in oneself, love for oneself, and above all self-control is the key to ultimate happiness and peace. Take charge and don't let anyone dictate to you how your life ought to be. Remember, YOU ARE AN EMPOWERED FREE BEING!