TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

Nowadays everyone wants to get into a relationship . Not knowing anything about it or thinking about anything else . Everyone thinks of it as a ferry tale like everything will be magical and good, they will always be happy . Most of the people of age group 14 to 18 want to get into a relationship not even thinking of consequences or of their future . Yes, relationships are good to be with someone you love, to be loved, to care about someone, to get cared for and get attention from someone . It all feels good but there isn’t only happiness. Sometimes you have to go through things that are too tough that are too hard but not losing patience, being calm and being together can deal with this all.

How does toxicity start in a relationship ?

When you are new in a relationship everything starts to feel good and everythings seems fine without any problem . But after some time people start to lose interest in each other . It doesn't happen with everyone but people whose commitments are not strong who don't love you the way you do strats to lose interest in you . It can be a major reason for getting into toxic relationships . If you are in a relationship where you feel congested or don't get love or attention as much as you deserve you should get rid of it completely . If you ever feel that you don’t love the other person or you don’t wanna live with them then you should just tell them or make them understand your point cause breaking someone’s heart isn’t fun or good . Talk to them about it, never make them feel they are not good enough for you, never cheat on a person cause you may not love them but for the other person you may be an important person of his\her life . 

Signs of toxicity ? 

If you are in a relationship how would you know your relationship is getting toxic ? 

There are some signs of getting into a toxic relationship . 

1. No one is perfect, everyone has flaws, everyone is different from each other in many ways and when you get in a relationship with a person you have to learn to neglect flaws of a person and love them with all you got cause you too have flaws you aren’t perfect either . If your partner starts to make you feel bad because of your flaws, make you feel that you aren’t perfect for them or they are better than you then you are in a toxic relationship . 
2. Everyone makes mistakes in their life . Your partner can make mistakes too; it can be a big mistake or small . But doing the same mistake again and again knowing you may get hurt or get affected from it isn’t proper. Remember cheating isn’t a mistake, cheating is done by purpose . If your partner cheats you just get out of that relationship don’t carry it further . If your partner makes mistakes again and again by taking you for granted is also a part of a toxic relationship . 
3. If your partner compares you with anyone else just leave that relationship . “JUST KNOW YOU ARE BEST THE WAY YOU ARE” no one ever has the right to compare you with anyone else . Cause if your partner ever did this it means they are not happy with you . When a person is compared by anyone else they feel themselves as a loser they think that they are not good enough for anyone, they try to compete with the other person and this leads them to anxiety, mental problems, depression . 
4. When your partner starts to disrespect you, starts to abuse you, starts to make fun of you in front of others or treating you badly makes you always feel ashamed of yourself . Then it’s also a sign of toxicity in your relationship . Never be in a relationship with them . 
5. Always play as a victim even if it's their fault . Always make you feel sorry for their mistakes . Making you feel guilty at your fault and at their fault too . Always making you wrong in every condition is also a part of a toxic relationship . 
6. If you get hurt by any of their faults and you tell them about it, but your partner never listens and does the same thing, never thinking about you is taking you for granted is also part of a toxic relationship. 

How to overcome it to make your relationship better ?

1. Always share everything with your partner, even small or big things . Talk about things that disturb you or make you feel sad . Cause in relationship love can fade away but partnership never. 
2. Always listen to your partner calmly . Try to understand them . If your partner says anything that they don’t like then don’t do it even if they say something about you that they don’t like, try to change it . 
3. Do things for your partner they like when they are feeling low . Understand their point of view and tell them your but never make them feel they are wrong, everyone is right by their point of view . 
4. Always appreciate your partner even for little things and always say sorry for your faults instead of making them feel sorry . Apologizing won’t make you smaller than anyone else, so do it . 
5. Try to change yourself for them cause not you are perfect not they are but by making compromise for each other you can make yourself perfect for each other . 

Conclusion:

Try not to give up that easily if you really love that person try to stay and understand them too, they might be going through a lot so give them time understand the situation try to make changes in you, both of the persons have to compromise a little to make a bond stronger. 

NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT , COMPROMISE HAVE TO BE DONE .