“We should respect our elders in any way”. This line we heard all the time right. And we have to but we have to be very careful sometimes before taught this to our children I know that so many of you know why let me tell you the reasons read carefully:-

1.The notion encourages the imitation of respect:-

To teach your child to treat other with dignity you should also treat them with it because what the parents do children learns from that and do the same but we forget that how we are treating them and  how we taught them to treat others. But we forcefully say them to do that and then after they become more angry and mischief.

In that we don't argue for our right too. And we have to suffer alot but as our elders says that don't argue we sit quite.

2.It causes children to ignore danger:-

In childhood we were taught that you must respect your elders and we have to do everything what they say but sometimes our children get in trap by this, and we don't even know about that.

As you know that sometimes some old people also have bad intensions towards our children or when we were children . Like they say they will give you candies and toffees and you thought that he or she is like our grandparents they will not harm us but the results become so harsh and bad.

3.It forces younger generation to follow old school behaviour:-

There is  a connection between age and experience that come from learning and observations and growing from other's mistake.

But sometimes they want us to do the same as they did in past. The ages ,goals , lifestyle and the situations are not same but they want us to follow the old school rules. As they get 3 or 4 children's in the age of nowadays working women and the both are correct but they didn't get it and force you emotionally and mentally.

4.It may give them false priority:- 

As we know that when we see that sometimes our elders behave good with thier elders and rudely with thier younger so we also get them and do the same.

Then we start to talk rudely with them and we don't care about them too much and simply we ignore our younger which is totally wrong.

5. Diminish thier own value:-

Whenever this happens that when parents always matters about their opinion in any matter.

They always says that " we are right because they are older and they always listen to their elders but not thier younger even if their elders are wrong and youngers are correct but they never do this they think that age matters but experience never comes with age.

Thank you ❤️