When will you get married   ?

We all are growing in society  where  'marriages ' are license of almost everything. After getting married your “ Sanskari ”  in there's point of view. If you get married the boy/ girl that your parents choose for you then your extremely " Sanskari ' . 

Bring a girl my parents always told me that  ‘ ek bar shadi ho jaye fir to chahe wo krna ’ . In indians family if your daughter's age is more then 25 . Then is not an girl anymore she is burden for society. Her parents was ready to keep her daughter in home but this society is so lame. This society never accept and if she is achieve something then this came to feel proud of her because she born there and few days that same society people talking about her. So hypocrite. 

If a boy is 30 and still unmarried and jobless then this society consider him  loser . Get job in 25 , get married in 30 - in 32 having first kid and then 35 another kid. This is happy family picture according to society. 

But 

What if that girl whom this whole society is asking 'when will you getting married " Maybe she is doing something that is keeps her family  financially stable , maybe in close door she is studying hard to achieve her goals. Her mother don't teach her how to cook food because her mother wants her daughter to be working women. 

It's ok if a boy this not getting married and being jobless. Maybe he's concentrating on her dreams. Maybe his parents is okay to him to continue his passion. 

Get married and have too kids. It's so easy to say but it's hard do to. Marriage is not an game. It's a big turn of life. Where everything gets change for both  gender . Marriage is not all about two families meeting each other , not only having sex and continue that boy sides family. Accept this all there is so much more in getting married. 

Don't just get married because this society wants, gets marriage when you feel now it's perfect time to have someone for entry life. Don't just get married because of your age. It's ok to take your time to.

Don't just get married because she is beautiful / he have so much money. Fall in love find some one who is actually made for you. Find someone who really matches you. Not someone who give you useless gifts.