​Do you ever experienced that you are stuck ? Feeling of " There is no way to find solutions " and you try to take help from your friends , collegues and family members ?
 

​          Almost everyone face such situations in life . Some people get out of it and some people also get out of it with big lessons after wasting there energy and time . But honestly making mistakes is our right . That's make us humans and bless us with opportunity of learning from our mistakes. The purpose of this post is make you aware that how powerful human mind is ! All is within whatever you are seeking it outside . 

“Learn how to see. Realize that everything connects to everything else.” — Leonardo DaVinci

This article consists following points 

1. Introduction
2. Index
3. My experience which lead me towards wisdom
4. How you can find your answers and solutions by your own , accurately and with more confidence  ?
5. The bottom line

​My experience which lead me towards wisdom

“The world is full of magical things patiently waiting for our wits to grow sharper.” — Eden Phillpotts

• Some months ago , I learn the one of the biggest lesson of life. This is what happened when universe want to teach you something.
• I was in condition where there was no way to  solve the question it might be because of it was so sudden and I was not prepared for......just like sky fall upon my head......It happened with us.... destiny put us in the most inappropriate situations ,where we we can learn or earn.
• I was taught that before doing something thought one thousands about time it. And being Indian girl the responsibility is much bigger of typical thinking.....girls are respect of family's so called name.....
• I found myself stuck , go to the everyone that please give the solution , I don't know what to do.   & all......I started my story to everyone with the perfect elaboration as good narrator supposed to do so
• By doing so instead of getting the magical mantra or solution , they make crazily confused. Everyone's opinion was very unique and different . Everytime when I used to narrate my epic story to my friends circle I found overwhelmed and the I thought problem was much bigger than me but it was not. My focus should be on finding the solution , but because of depending upon others I just waste my time and energy.
• Now when think about it....I can'tt stop myself to laugh out upon my own  stupidly.....
• I didn't left anyone over there including my younger brother ( only real friends , literally cause never faked his feelings about  me just say whatever he feel...it hurt sometimes but there is a kind of integrity and honesty in him. ) I asked each and everyone . " What should I do ? "
• The situation was bitter because I the pressure was huge......I was in situation when I called God day & night..... pressure of not doing wrong or hurt anyone......infact I try to get answer from tarot cards readers .Every reader depict different directions . They just guide how to get answer but not the proper solution.
• I know that it may sound rubbish or childlike but it was true.
• Some might laugh at me , some might make fun of me , some might concerned or some were taking it lightly......I didn't get solutions
• The best results come out when I step back and reflect on the issue.....gave a time to myself......

“We are the scientists, trying to make sense of the stars inside us.” — Christopher Poindexter

​What I learn from my experience  ? How you can find your answers and solutions by your own , accurately and with more confidence  ? 

1. If you are facing it ,then only you have the strength to deal with it....
2. Don't seek for anyone's validation or opinion ( unless the elder or wiser one ) of others .Don't go to everyone for solutions.
3. Take a break and reflect....do what you love... and do what feels great to your heart.....
4. Think and try to understand your situation.
5. No one is your best ever  friend in this world...... expect you....
6. And if you can't be your own best friend , nothing is measerable than that.....
7. Go within and find the solution.....I promise you get the best answer ever......
8. It's okay feeling stuck or finding the solution , and is really great because it's sign the at least you are trying to something , that you take the charge of your own situation
9. Writing journal or selftalk are the easiest ways to go deeper , natigate the possibilities and seek the answers......at least it will help you to analyze more effectively.
10. Only you know that what is going wrong , where you are weak , what are the weak points you need to work on ......
11. Another thing when you share your problem in community it seems bigger than you , and you feel like handicap by mind.... Don't depend on everyone.
12. Yeah but may surely can get advice from the person who is selfless , want to see you happy and successful  , who is well experienced and expert in that field.....it may be your close friend or your mom or your teacher.
13. Instead , when you think about the solutions and research by your ownself or took help from well experienced one and flexible to understand your situation can give you the solution.....and when took the opinion it's your own job to rethink on before exhicutionn and reorganize the data.....see the pron and cons of it.
14. And the best thing is no one will take advantage of your  situation......
15. There is a sanskrit shlok....I didn't remember the lyrics which means that never share some personal things with your friends....like your weakness , your relationship with your husband or wife , about your financial situation etc...
16. But if you share things with your toxic collegue or relative you even can't imagine that how can be misuse it......
17. Never seek for for others judgements and appreciation , that are temporary thing....as people changes opinion might be  change...
18. It vary important how you see yourself ? How you understand your strengths and work on it ? How you deal with your weaknesses ?how you overcome ?

1. are human beings and by default everyone makes mistake . Everyone has abilities as well as disabilities....... it's up to you how you grow , what steps you took....?

​The bottom line
 

1. Remember you are your best guide, best motivator, best instructor , best teacher and best disciple , best evaluator........
2. Trust yourself...... you are the complete universe ....and all universal powers lies within you the key is..   self-search , self- evaluation , and self- improvement........

“To the mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders.” — LaoTzu

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        This was all by my side . Hope you enjoy have enjoy it  . If you have any suggestions , remarks and views on this topic then please comment below . Let me know where I can improve my writings . Thank you so much for your valuable and precious time .

Stay Blessed , Safe , Healthy , Happy......!!