As human beings we all want love. But sometimes we come across people who are slightly rude and not much polite with people. How do you think we should treat them?

The first answer I know would be with the same rudeness or being harsh with our words. Some of you might say we will not respond at all. Some of you might say that we will respond politely. So, everyone will respond according to them

If I am being honest, I also used to respond with the same rudeness to those people as they were. But with time I have realized that it is not the truth that is in front of us but the truth is they are hiding something behind this anger or rudeness. 

Generally, people who are rude or straight forward are the people who are very much real. They do not sugar coat things to please someone or sometimes these people are hurt for not being listened to or they do not have someone they can talk to or they can share the pain they are feeling or the situation they are coping with or the hard phase of life they are going through.

And because they do not have someone they can share all this with, they vent out or talk rudely with people they do not know. 

The only thing which is needed for such people is love. What if I suggest you be a little polite to them or show a little love to them, you would be surprised and would not believe that this is the same person who used to be so angry or rude.

The only thing you need to do is when you see someone shouting or talking rudely just be polite and behave a bit lovingly with them. I have personally tried this and I have seen the changes in the relationship with that person. It was drastically changed when instead of talking back rudely, I first listen patiently, and then once they calm down to ask them if everything is okay or anything they are going through or anything that bothering them or even trying to communicate that you could have said the same thing like this and this would not have hurt me or it would have been better and I could have understood your situation better.

So, try to know the reason behind someone's rudeness instead of just being rude in return.