Once in our lifetime, we have had this thought of having a best friend who just matters more than anything to us. We come across so many people in our lives and even become friends with some of them. But have you experienced being a stranger with the person you know everything about?
Then with time, we get a little more close, and then comes a point where you become so close that you do not hesitate to share even the very personal things with them. We share every small or big, personal or non-personal thing which we might not even think of sharing with anyone.
I think that is the stage when we call people best friends. And then onwards we barely think of wrong or right before sharing or telling them anything because we start believing them blindly. Now you both have become an important part of each other's life.
But then suddenly things start changing. Now, the same person who used to be very much into you now does not give the same attention to you. They are showing that things are not the same anymore. They start ignoring your text, they do not pick up your call or do not even text back to say why they missed the call or even not bothered about giving a call back. And when you ask them about the reason for doing so, they do not even care to give you the proper reason for it and simply say I was busy.
You have now realised a sense of change in their behaviour towards you. The bond which used to seem very strong and very much healthy now seems faded and the strength is not there as it used to be.
You are sad and worried and disheartened to see these changes and wonder what has happened that makes things change. You try to talk to them and ask what has happened or what wrong you have done? You try your level best to make things works but even after trying your level best the other person is just not interested to make things work or does not even care if things are working or not. They are happy with whatever things are going or whatever way they are. And then after a point, you have to accept the fact that the other person has already moved on and You are just known strangers now.